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Regrets

have been thinking about regrets lately.   What I have realized is that all my regrets about the past are really more about fears of the future.   I don't regret things I haven't done.  It isn't that there aren't things that would have been productive, constructive, or fruitful for me to do.  There are many.  And there are things that would have been fun, interesting, exciting or given me a very different life.  At any point in my life there were myriad paths to take and looking back I can see why I chose what I chose and how one choice led to another.  I find my life satisfying.  I am pretty happy with who I am and where I am and how I live.  What I find myself regretting are choices that I somehow believe would have resulted in a different reality tomorrow and even today.  Like wishing I had taken better care of my body when I had injuries or illnesses so that I were in better health now.  Like wishing I had taken c...