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Storm Cleanse


I remember a coworker I had once whose favorite saying was, "My favorite thing about me is my bad attitude." I thought it was very funny at the time. I don't believe it is any longer. Now, I love when I have a great attitude, when my mood is happy and hopeful. But that isn't always true, because I am human. As a human being I experience the full range of emotions and biases.

 It doesn't mean I have to inflict my negative energy on those around me. I don't have to leave a path of destruction and resentment in my wake with my bad attitude. I don't have to make a production out of my attitude or my mood.

If I have a storm raging within, it can stay within where it can cleanse my thoughts giving me creative energy and a fresh perspective. I acknowledge my current attitude, whatever it is, and allow it to play out.

For me to achieve the highest enjoyment of life I must accept any and all of my feelings and moods as completely natural. They are opportunities for expression and growth. Storms do sweep things clean by simply doing what they do.

Today, my favorite thing about me is that I am human and I get to have feelings and moods. I get to experience the world through my own personal filter giving it my unique skew. And that, my friends, is awesome.
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